It makes me smile inside to have daughters who aren't typical teens. Such a fun mixture of geeky, talented, beautiful, crafty, brilliant, and kind. Some days they sit around drinking tea and knitting lovely things, usually watching something nerdly like the BBC's Sherlock or Merlin. They are adept at channeling their inner old ladies, enjoying Shakespeare, reading at coffee shops while sipping snobby organic fair trade coffee (dark roast, of course), upcycling thrift store finds, hosting geeky parties for their friends (such a party is happening at our house tomorrow), reading and re-reading Harry Potter, baking, sewing, taking photos, or painting. Other days you might see them do something completely the opposite--like shooting a gun, riding a dirt bike, fishing with Jay, or hiking through the woods. Ha! I love them!
Both of my girls have their own sense of style, not caring what the "normal" trends are for most girls their age. Naturally lovely, they don't care too much (or in Maddy's case, at all) about make-up. It makes me happy. Kyra is my little bohemian with a heart for the poor and downtrodden. Maddy has a keen sense of justice and a wonderful heart free of judgement and condemnation. It has been incredible to watch them as they are discovering who God created them to be and are seeking His path for them. These girls will do great things.
I suppose I should point out that they aren't perfect. Just in case you were wondering. :) I am constantly giving them the Mom Lecture about their rooms, which seem to always look like something barfed yarn, clothing, books, water glasses, and who-knows-what-else, all over the place. Certainly there are days when they have to be reminded to get busy and do their schoolwork. Having three girls in the house, there are emotional days and grumpy days, days when we'd just as soon be 100 miles away from each other. You know how it goes. I'm pretty sure it's just the same as any other family. Thankfully, those days are far outnumbered by good ones.
I am one blessed mama. Thank you, Jesus, for granting me the honor of being mom to these amazing young women.